Buffet sex: The new way of lying that changes EVERYTHING

Most people who seek help with their sex lives, or wonder what's really possible, carry their own unique mix of longings and challenges. What if there was one solution that suited everyone – and was also fun, sexy, innovative, exciting and hot?

Buffet sex is a concept that is about making visible our learned “script” for how sex should be, questioning it and replacing it with new, more pleasurable ways of approaching intimacy and horniness. Instead of getting stuck in the classic “three-course fuck” – sloppy foreplay, routine intercourse and a little half-hearted cuddling afterwards – sex inspiration Marika Smith serves up a rich buffet of exercises and games that awaken the imagination. The result? A sex life that becomes more varied, communicative, undemanding and full of pleasure. At the same time, better conditions are also created for desire to flow – and for those important, passionate conversations about sex.

This is the book for those who want to take a new approach to their sex life, discover what you really like and learn how to convey that to your partner. It explores what is possible beyond the usual and how sex can be pieced together in new ways, exactly according to your needs and your desire – in the moment.

Maybe it's even the case that life in general can become more of a buffet, not just the sex?

As an extension of the book, there is also the relationship game Sex in a Box , filled with exercises and tips. The game has been a great success, including in the TV program Married at First Sight .